Dating Advice
HOW
TO WIN A GIRL'S HEART WHEN YOU'RE NOT THE ONLY ONE VYING FOR IT
This woman is trying to
find the right man for her. She wants someone to sweep her off her feet and
make her happy. By not consistently showing your interest you have confused her
AND put yourself out of the running.
By god man, if she means
something to you, stay in there!
EENY MEENY MINY MOE: HOW WOMEN REALLY CHOOSE
It’s important to keep in
mind that she probably doesn’t know what to do about her multiple suitor
situation either.
Lets see, eeny meeny miny moe, which man will make her the happiest?
No, that doesn’t sound right.
A woman may have a genuine attraction to a guy but at the beginning, it’s fragile. Where men are like gas stoves, women are generally more like crock pots. A man’s attraction flame is lit very quickly. But a woman takes longer to warm up to a guy before her ambivalence is traded in for attachment.
You only put in a month before her ambivalence sent you packing. It’s NORMAL for a woman to be ambivalent. Do not take her ambivalence personally. If a woman is overly attached in the beginning it could be a dangerous sign for the relationship.
You say you’re the nice guy like it’s a bad thing. But dude, its not high school anymore. You don’t have to ride up on a motorcycle to get the girl.
She will choose the man that shows her he can make her the happiest.
Lets see, eeny meeny miny moe, which man will make her the happiest?
No, that doesn’t sound right.
A woman may have a genuine attraction to a guy but at the beginning, it’s fragile. Where men are like gas stoves, women are generally more like crock pots. A man’s attraction flame is lit very quickly. But a woman takes longer to warm up to a guy before her ambivalence is traded in for attachment.
You only put in a month before her ambivalence sent you packing. It’s NORMAL for a woman to be ambivalent. Do not take her ambivalence personally. If a woman is overly attached in the beginning it could be a dangerous sign for the relationship.
You say you’re the nice guy like it’s a bad thing. But dude, its not high school anymore. You don’t have to ride up on a motorcycle to get the girl.
She will choose the man that shows her he can make her the happiest.
HOW
TO WIN THE FAIR MAIDEN’S HAND
You wanna know how to win
the fair maiden’s hand?
You want to know how to make her choose you?
You want to know how to show a woman that you’re the man who can make her happy? You have to earn her trust. You have to be consistent with your affection and attention.
You want to know how to make her choose you?
You want to know how to show a woman that you’re the man who can make her happy? You have to earn her trust. You have to be consistent with your affection and attention.
CONSISTENCY AND PERSISTENCE BUILD TRUST AND
ATTRACTION
I’m not saying come on super strong and text her every 5 minutes. I’m saying: listen to her, be there for her should she need your help, show her that you want to make her happy. Put your best foot forward: be chivalrous, kind, considerate, and thoughtful. Be patient. Take it slow. Do nice little things for her like: bring her a rose for no reason, surprise her with her favorite coffee order, remember something she said days ago and refer to it in conversation. Damnit man, sweep her off her feet!!!
You’re persistence in pursuing her (not stalking!) will help her to work through her ambivalence.
BEING A “REAL MAN” MEANS…RISKING YOUR HEART FOR LOVE
The biggest complaint
women have about the dating scene today is that men aren’t men anymore. They’re
passive, lazy, insecure “boys.” Women are looking for a real man. Being a real
man means putting your heart on the line and pursuing the woman who peaks your
interest.
The
biggest response men have to this complaint is that it’s not fair that all the
responsibility of the pursuit belongs to the man. Why can’t women pursue too?
Remember when we talked about women being crock pots? When a woman is ambivalent, how do you expect her to pursue? She can’t. It doesn’t work with a woman’s attraction process. But when a man pursues a woman, builds her trust, and shows her his interest, THAT’s when she can connect with her attraction, affection and attachment for him.
Even if you do everything right, you still have to consider that you may not be the guy for her and that it’s just as hard for her to say no to you, as it is for you to feel hurt and rejected. Ask her out anyway.
You say you don’t want to risk your heart but the reality is: love is a numbers game. In sales you pitch to 25 people before you get a taker. To expect a sale each time you pursue a woman would be setting yourself up for sure disappointment.
"C’mon man, no pain no gain. No risk no reward. Put your gloves on and get back in the ring! We’re all rooting for you"!
Remember when we talked about women being crock pots? When a woman is ambivalent, how do you expect her to pursue? She can’t. It doesn’t work with a woman’s attraction process. But when a man pursues a woman, builds her trust, and shows her his interest, THAT’s when she can connect with her attraction, affection and attachment for him.
Even if you do everything right, you still have to consider that you may not be the guy for her and that it’s just as hard for her to say no to you, as it is for you to feel hurt and rejected. Ask her out anyway.
You say you don’t want to risk your heart but the reality is: love is a numbers game. In sales you pitch to 25 people before you get a taker. To expect a sale each time you pursue a woman would be setting yourself up for sure disappointment.
"C’mon man, no pain no gain. No risk no reward. Put your gloves on and get back in the ring! We’re all rooting for you"!
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